lol. I see I added “cream”. Hahaha. I must have been excited.
Yes, I understand the soft ice maker. Still very cool!
Originally Posted by grok
Why does it always seem to occur around 20 years together? Is there something about the human condition that makes 20 years the hump to get over?
There is usually/typically the next stage of life around then. Both partners are advancing and changing, and need to rekindle and reconnect as these “new” people emerge. Unfortunately things can go off the rails. Especially if both people wan at the same time.
From couples that remained married and in love for 50, 60, and beyond years, they often point out a one interesting reason among the others: We both didn’t fall out of love at the same time. Everything waxes and wanes.
Personally, I also find modern society quick to jump upon feelings rather than follow beliefs. It is normal during life’s various transitions for feelings to stir and such. Decisions based upon emotion lead to regret. Hold course or make regrettable decisions, IMHO.
Originally Posted by grok
We often feel like we have to be taking action, doing something, setting things final ... Though we don't have to. Be stable and comfortable in limbo or other.
Amen. Absolutely.
Let those feelings flit.
Embrace limbo.
Hope you have a wonderful day g.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
