As in my latest post, I go through older threads and learn from others. For whatever reason, I clicked on Ske0187's thread and found you.
Originally Posted by Caligirl 09/28/19 09:17 PM
I went back and caught up on some of your stich . Newbie too . I like the part when you don't know what to say don't say anything. It's taken me a little bit to learn not to respond to about 50 percent of what H is saying because it's just non sense or baiting . Not making a life time decision on an emotion you are feeling is a great idea .
It is true . For a long time I would paddle hard , address every emotion . Now I do nothing and pause . If it doesn’t pass after a few days then I will touch on it usually on here . I find this the safest place to do it as we have all been in or are in the same raft .
I can say this was not a thing that changed in the last 6 months . This was 4-5 years of chaos to start seeing a shift that has stuck for the first time in a very long time . It is nothing you did or didn’t do . It is excuses they use to fuel their fires .
