G, thank you for sharing this with me. It’s very insightful and something for me to listen for. As I read through your note to me, I can’t help but remember my husband saying that I don’t listen to him. I felt like I always listened. Perhaps this is how he feels and I never saw it. There certainly is a difference between hearing and listening and this is what I hear you point out. if you’re looking to call something else out, please clarify.

Perhaps my son is sharing feelings in ways I’m not hearing.

Hope you’re doing well.