W slept in D13's top bunk last night but neither D13 or W slept well and W didn't set alarm so D13 was running late this morning. W wanted me to drive her to school but it's the opposite direction of where I need to go to get to work and I needed to get in early to make up for my week with the kids when I was going in late and leaving early (folks at work are aware of what's going on and supportive). So I just said this is your week and left.
D13 doesn't understand why I'm not "letting mom sleep in her bed" and W doesn't seem to have my back which is not surprising. So she said she's sleeping in our bed tonight regardless if I'm there or not. It's a king size bed so we can keep our distance but I know I won't sleep if she's there (last night was the worst sleep I've had in a while and I think it's just because she was in the house). I'm ok with being uncomfortable as you all suggest but I also think it might be better for the kids if I stay at the beach house the next two nights and come back on Saturday for kiddo's activities. I have plans in the city Saturday night and can use points to stay at a hotel near my plans as well. Work from beach house Friday/Monday and come back Tuesday evening after work.
