Mom and dad love you very much . Sometimes people need to sleep in different rooms .
Rotate cooking each week for the children .
Be mindful how you are responding to her messages or if you should at all . The sex comment and you cooked last two nights sounds like you are taking digs at her . It’s not needed .
I went through same thing with cooking . My nights which are always more and the kids prefer moms dinners anyway . I cooked . Plated the children and myself . If H wanted to eat food was there . He could make his own plate if he wanted .