There is not much point in marriage counseling when one of the partners wants to separate. They just use the MC as more ammo. “Well, we tried MC and it didn’t work.”

Of course counseling doesn’t work when they have one foot out the door.

If you do go for the co-parenting advice/meeting, keep them on task. Do not engage is other topics. “We are here to discuss co-parenting.” Don’t let W, or her counsellor, gaslight or coerce you.

D


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.