Totally agree that he is definitely being a baby and perhaps even a coward.
he is looking for clothes to take on his sailing trip. Potentially even a suitcase or two from the house. I’m totally comfortable with not responding. After all, there was no question asked.
Inevitably, he will figure that out and send a text with the question in the next couple of days at which point I can respond with your suggestion.
It certainly is possible that he just comes here at a time that he thinks I’m not home or that I’m actually not home, which is worse. This is not me acting out of fear as much as it is my reality. At the end of the day, he has access to the house.