So no text from H last night to wish a happy new year to me. Unlike last year, he did text the kids. Yay!!!
Glad he texted the kids. Trust me when I say it would hurt either way.
Originally Posted by MamaG
Today I get a very superficial text without any happy new year wishes.
H: I need to grab a couple of clothes from the house.
Suggestions on my response?: I packed up your belongings in the summer; please make sure to take everything you need. The only day I can this week is Friday at 6.
I would ignore it and not respond. This is only a short term band-aid.
The real question is are you ready to take the bigger step? He's going to keep coming over until you stop it.
If you truly want this to stop (which FYI is another painful step of surrendering) it would be.
"I think it is time you grab all of your things so you no longer need to continually stop by. I have packed up all and it is located in the garage You can grab them on Friday at 6. If that doesn't work. please provide an alternative time. Whatever you do not grab will be put up for donation"
Honestly - He sounds like one of my kids in daycare. That is no way to ask to come to the house. What a manbaby.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
