And NOT by text.....wait until in person and ONLY IF SHE BRINGS UP THE TOPIC.
Do not focus on what you can't change (your W). Focus on the things that you can change. Take a good hard look at your behaviors, the way you interact with other, your beliefs, your thought process, the words you use, the tone, inflections, facial expressions, body language ect.
Decide if any of them need changes. Work on making positive changes from this day forward. You have been given a great gift, even if you can't see it right now.
Learn about attraction and seduction and understand the difference.
Personally, I would make EVERY future bedroom encounter a pleasant surprise for her. She thinks she knows you, prove her wrong. Be different. Make her question her choices.
STFU. Listen. The fewer words you use, the better.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
