I don't know how long they've been 'dating'. But what mutual friends have said, she was completely single as of a few months ago. Then started dating a guy. Now is with this guy, who again, lives 4 hours away. Why bring a guy who lives 4 hours away around our son?

It bothers me that she seemingly has little regard for anyone or anything, other than herself. And that's fine, until it effects our son. 3 weeks ago she said she was going out of town for a 4 day weekend. She went to be with this guy. Does that bother me? Not really. What does bother me is that in those 4 days, she never once even texted our son to ask how he was doing, despite him wrestling two days in a big tournament.

It also bothers me that she would have this dude, who I never met, pull in my driveway to pick up our son. And what kind of loser would agree to do that? If I would have met the guy in advance, or even knew about him being in the picture, that would be different.

Again, those reasons are petty and stupid, I know. IDK why it makes me so mad to be honest.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14