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[Terapin]

Hi folks. Hope everyone is well. Just wanted to give a quick check in.

Things have been ok I guess. Son is good. I"m still seeing the same girl, and that's (usually) going well.

I know this is a marriage forum, not a relationship forum, but I've been struggling with something.

I've been dating this girl for about 7 or 8 months now. I didn't consider it all that serious, but I guess it's getting to that point. I don't know how far it can progress, cause at this point I can't see myself getting married again. Anyway, she has only met my son like twice, and both times were social situations with a lot of people. I have told him a little about her. She's been pushing to be involved in his life. I guess I kinda been holding off on it for a few reasons (unsure of long term potential, unsure how to go about it, unsure how he'll take it, etc).

So XW comes to pick him up last week, and a different vehicle pulls in my driveway. I told son that that isn't mom, and he said it's mom's friend. She was in the car too, and they were going to her parents for Thanksgiving. Some dude with an out of state license plate, pulls into my driveway, and picks up my son to go to my former in laws for Thanksgiving dinner. I wasn't very happy.

Obviously, it's none of my business who she dates (unless it's bad for our son). But to have this tool come to my house? Plus, as I said, I've been holding off my GF getting to know my son, cause I assumed it's best to wait for a while. Meanwhile, she couldn't have been with this dude for more than two months, and he's already involved in my sons life? I texted her and told her not to bring a guy to my house to pick up our son again. I know, bad move. She wrote back and said that he's a part of her life now, our son and her parents have met him, etc.

Am I crazy? lol