Aftershocks… great way of putting it . On either end of this I find we are all in the same space . They are so random too . Just hit you out of nowhere. Music is a bit of a trigger for me . Not mine but H music . For months he was listening to random bands last year . Now if they come on awkward because I’m over in my head thinking who he likes that song about . Throws me for a bit . Any specific thing that triggers your after shocks ?