Had a few good days at home and out and about . Enjoyed an evening with one of the kids alone . My GAL is my kids and when I’m older will be my grandkids . Went to ride some roller coasters . Had a ton of 1:1 fun .
My struggle this week could be validating but not approving . Could use some advice .
Example :
H : I’m really just happy and content . I like how I can talk to you now and how close I feel to you with communication .
Me: I was not and will not be close with someone or listen to them while they were cheating . That was your choice not to be close to your W.
Yes it just flew out my mouth ! It wasn’t a mean tone or anything like that . Just was very direct almost like an unspoken boundary I was stating . H just shook his head and kinda took it .
