I am not surprised at the number of moves and job changes. They stay somewhere for a bit and then it is off to another location. They are constantly looking for something that will make them feel better about themselves. Depression has a way of clouding their judgment and they don't see the world in all colors. They see it as dark grey or black when they are in the middle of a depressive episode.
I am very happy to read that you are moving ahead and seeking financial support. Now, you will need to step back a little and allow your attorney to do the heavy lifting for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
