What about when she tells me she wants me to pay attention to her accomplishments and congratulate her and make her feel good about them... but to me that feels like I am pursuing her?
Or choose around the house. I want to make house more pleasant for all of us, not just her. I'm putting away my laundry and cleaning up after myself. Often cleaning entire rooms. She just sits there. She accuses me of trying to please her.. but the reality is this is weight I should have pulled for a long time and couldn't DUE TO MY DISEASE (for reference I had a restriction about getting HR above 100bpm)... so I am now stepping up to do the things I am supposed to be doing as a man an and a father and as her "roommate" .. not to please her.. but to help myself get past this disease...
