Rumspringa

[RegretfulLA]

In some cases divorce is not the end of the story. The “old” marriage is dead, regardless of a piece of paper or not, and if the couple is going to go forward a new relationship is going to be needed.

I love that.

I feel like H crossed a line that cannot be uncrossed. It was the lying more than the cheating. I can understand cheating but i cannot understand lying.

H’s birthday is Saturday. I sent him a book about healing the inner child with a note that I hoped this would bring him peace. I am not sure what his therapist is doing but it’s not working very well.

I was not planning on doing anything for him but after some intense 4 am journaling this is what i decided was needed. You are right, DnJ - H is on his own sad path. And i think the healthiest thing for me to do is leave him.