So I had a long post typed out and lost it 😡. Anywho…I got a call from the om’s current girlfriend a few weeks ago. W has been talking to him again for several months. She told me enough details to know she wasn’t lying. Confirmed it with W later that day. Says they were just talking as friends. I don’t believe it, according to the gf W was telling him how unhappy she is, how badly I treat her, and trying to get back with him so she could leave me. Supposedly she was blowing up his phone while they were on vacation and that’s how she caught them. Short version is she’s leaving her job and going no contact with him or it’s over for us. I know that’s not dbing and I’ll catch flack for it on here. That’s ok, it’s where I am at this point. She was very apologetic, for the first time ever and swears it’s over, wants me, blah blah blah. Time will tell. She asked why I keep putting up with her and why don’t I just end it. My immediate response was because I made a vow 27 years ago that said for better or worse. I wonder if that’s the truth or if I have an unhealthy attachment to her/the relationship. The last week or so has been very calm on my part. Very detached and just doing my own thing. We spend time together and I also make time to be alone as well.
