I have no idea how to address any of this with him.
Just pack up H’s notebooks, along with other things of his. When/if he wants some of his belonging, or you decide to get some of his stuff out of the house and into his apartment, give him the boxes.
This reminds me of some advice I see repeated in older threads…when the question was “what do I do now that I found out XXXX was going on?”
The answer in the form of questions- Snooping can inform you as to what is / they think is going on, but.
Does knowing change what you should be doing? i.e. GAL, detach, etc…
Does knowing change what you would require of him?
The answer almost always seems to be that it doesn’t change either one.
The snooping does let you know where they are at in exchange for larger injury to your heart and soul.
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H:55 XW:50 D19, D18, S13 ILYBINILWY 3/23 DB1 4/23, rescinded 5/23, DB2 6/23 ("I can't do this, I Love HIM") Legal Mediation 1-5 & W leaves 8/23 – 3/24 Settlement 5/24, Court 9/11/24 <-, D 9/16/24
