My eye caught the same sentence DnJ highlights. "am I wired to feel rejection." I'm actually impressed that he has such awareness and a strong enough thought to capture in a notebook. Either way, his coping mechanisms are less than welcomed and I understand your feelings. I empathize, as this certainly confirms MLC in case you were uncertain.
Based on all I've read, confronting him about these findings wouldn't help any. He'll likely deny/lie and it'll somehow be addressed as your fault.
