If I’m being truly honest even if or when he decides to give me the bank password I’m still not giving him access to my income . Those days are long gone and may never return . I already know the hotel meet up location and have copies of the receipts . His A partner was so kind to send me those in the “anonymous “ letter . Insert sarcasm . H car got fixed . I sent over the money .He did attempt to touch on it again a day later . Shut that right down . Co-horting finances is just not even happening .
On a more fun note . “We” meaning us an entire family had a large wedding to attend on my side . My sister made a comment regarding H about how happy he looks and she hasn’t seen him like that in years . My father asked me how I was doing with everything . I said I’m just here for now haven’t made up my mind on anything yet . Got to love a dads love for his daughter . Dads response you are here for now until he does this again and now you are much more prepared for the exit . Touché
