There is a ten minute window to edit after initial posting. During this time an <edit> button - next to the <like>, <reply>, and <quote> buttons - is available.
If the editing window has elapsed, a follow up post to further/clarify information works well. (Which I think is the case here. )
Moderators can edit/delete without time limit. If you have a required edit or deletion (example too much personal information) just let me know and I will look after it. Usually, just create a post within your thread with the requested changes, I’ll make the changes and delete the requesting post.
There is also a sticky thread “Notifications / Contacting a Moderator” in each forum as well. This can also be utilized. It is more meant as a work around for the nonfunctional notifications/reporting.
Your work colleague’s sudden departure would be a shock. And yes, rejection and abandonment would be felt, given his aftermath behaviour.
It sounds like GBF was fired (you mentioned he was let go) and he lied about it. Likely him trying to save face. His reactions have nothing to do with you. Sudden firing is usually a disciplinary response, more than from a performance issue. Culpable vs non-culpable.
You’ve reached out (across country). For now, grieve the friendship and work relationship. (((Hugs)))
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
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