I was weak and I sent a text that said . I am sorry for my part in the breakdown of our relationship and he replied . " You did nothing wrong" he asked if we could talk tomorrow. I want to ask him if he is texting because he is working things through for himself or if he is reconsidering his choices but I'm not sure if I should . I also want to tell him that all though i appreciate his concern I cannot have daily communication with him because it is giving me false hope. I want to tell him unless he wants to re consider his choices and discuss those then I would be willing to have that conversation. But I'm afraid of that too. I don't want to push too soon if he is working on things.
1 - is it too soon for me to confront him about texting me if he is re considering ? 2- or do I just tell him that I cannot have daily interaction because I need my space to move on with out him. 3- do I continue to do the same withdraw, not text first , be business like and not show any emotion but be a friend, be cordial and kind?
This is so HARD!!!!!!! Help me get THROUGH THIS! I appreciate your support!
Married 1991 D 32 GD 12 D 30 GD 3 S 29 M 58 S 57 1st bomb 2008 2nd bomb 4/2015 same person New bomb 09/24 I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.