I was weak and I sent a text that said . I am sorry for my part in the breakdown of our relationship and he replied . " You did nothing wrong" he asked if we could talk tomorrow. I want to ask him if he is texting because he is working things through for himself or if he is reconsidering his choices but I'm not sure if I should .
I also want to tell him that all though i appreciate his concern I cannot have daily communication with him because it is giving me false hope. I want to tell him unless he wants to re consider his choices and discuss those then I would be willing to have that conversation. But I'm afraid of that too. I don't want to push too soon if he is working on things.

1 - is it too soon for me to confront him about texting me if he is re considering ?
2- or do I just tell him that I cannot have daily interaction because I need my space to move on with out him.
3- do I continue to do the same withdraw, not text first , be business like and not show any emotion but be a friend, be cordial and kind?

This is so HARD!!!!!!! Help me get THROUGH THIS! I appreciate your support!


Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.