Returning newbie here

[lonelee]

I am trying to remain focused on detaching, this is very hard. Spouse has texted me first many days this week. I usually wait to respond by an hour to two depending on the question. I typically respond with little input as to not engage. He has been very kind, offering to take care of me, referred to me via my pet name from him and acting as though he is concerned. Also just asking random questions for my input on things. He has also begun chatting in a group chat we had with friends that he had stopped doing at the onset of his leaving as well. (It's been 24 days however it feels like it's been at least 3 months) Of course this all has me confused and guessing what he is up to. I want to ask but I don't want to ask.
I think I should just continue to be nonchalant and continue to see what unfolds.
What are your thoughts? please and thanks.