Well done at the event. (And life. You are rocking it. )
Originally Posted by MamaG
I pray I'm doing the right thing because it doesn't feel right and it feels so raw again. (I keep telling myself this.)
You are doing fine. And yes, it does feels counterintuitive.
Originally Posted by MamaG
Do I continue to resist temptation to not reach out for a friendly engagement? Offer myself some psychological flexibility? I'm self-disciplined and practicing restraint but will follow recommendations.
Continue as you are. Living, loving life.
You did extend a friendly olive branch to H. He has to be ready and willing to reciprocate. If he is/does, if he isn’t/doesn’t, keep walking your path. Kind cordial. Better not bitter. Focusing on you. Allowing H time and space to decide his course - respond/reach out or continue to avoid.
(His is a slow path. Soooo slow.)
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
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