Grief and Gratitude, Grok - Shifting

[DnJ]

Good Morning g

You and the kids weathered this adventure well. Nice going Dad!

D19, ”Are you nuts? Besides…. I don’t want us kids to be separated….at all.”

Lol.

Also, doesn’t get much clearer than that.

Every time one of them has said the word “family” it meant the four of us. It seems the underlying current is us four are “family” and mom is just mom.

That is how it is for my brood as well. Remain the strong and stable rock g.

I have a bunch of thoughts at this sequence. But STFU smoothie
- You are an adult woman who can do what she pleases.
- What "we?"
- You can choose to leave anytime.
- You divorced me, for OM, yet:
- She is looking for me the man, head of household to lead. Make the decisions.
- OM is no where to be found.

Well done holding your tongue.

However, yes, where was OM during XW’s stress? Shrug. Such is such a relationship built upon sand.

Have a great day g!

D