Thank you . I appreciate all of the insights and support I can get right now. I have a call into a lawyer. I am making my own copies of anything important I can find in the house .
This forum will be a source of support until we inform our children, I really cannot use friends or family yet. He states he doesn't have a plan as of yet and doesn't see a reason why things should change. He states Just stay married he'll keep me on the property and if he dies it'll go to me, which is the right thing to do, as far as the houses , we each have one . He wants me to enroll him in my health insurance again for next year which I have to decide by Oct 29. He states he doesn't have a plan yet for telling our adult children, really ?? what are you doing and thinking then ??? It is hard waiting another 24 days for a return visit to Maine to have th type discussions and with the with kids but I think that's better than a call or text ? I really don't know. So hard and confusing.
I agree I think he's just living in lalala land in a a MLC/OW affair and isn't taking time to think about the seriousness of all of this like I have to. It stinks!!!
Married 1991 D 32 GD 12 D 30 GD 3 S 29 M 58 S 57 1st bomb 2008 2nd bomb 4/2015 same person New bomb 09/24 I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.
