I understand what you are saying. I will continue on my journey of self reflection and distance. However, there are things needing to be discussed on occasion. Also, I thought what I was doing was maybe asking if these were baby steps in the right direction? Isn't that what the book asked us to do was to gauge if there were a reaction to the silent treatment?


Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.