Ensure to continue sending the alimony payments. You need a continuous paper trail.
As for her returning payments to offset/payback a debt she feels she owes on her van, that’s fine. Just like her requesting to hold back the next two months worth, that’s fine as well.
I’d answer her request regarding holding back November’s and December’s van payments with “No problem. Thanks for letting me know.”
True, she does not have to pay back the debt. I believe you mentioned that to her already. Yet, she feels she wants to. As said, that’s fine. For some reason paying back that debt is important to her.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
