DnJ- I will read through your update in due time, but I have some news that I’d love your help with.
I know you’ve been along for the ride and you know this information but thought I’d recap before I begged for help
It’s been 20 months since BD. After 15 months, I stopped responding to his texts -5 months ago. Basically went no contact which was a shift since we had been talking a couple times a week. With adult children and living separately, it just made sense to stop playing part time wife and so I could heal.
There has been limited monstering since I’ve gone no contact (actually limited Monster for 15 months). And lots of touch and goes that I’ve not responded to via text.
5 months of no contact generated a text from him today. “Can we talk this Saturday?”
Pit in my stomach. Unsure what he is looking to cover. No idea what he did all summer. I don’t snoop to know of any AP. Regardless, I sit here trying to figure out how to answer. Timid. Unsettled.
Help. Do I engage in convo through text or just respond to question? It’s been so long.
