Grief and Gratitude, Grok - Shifting

[Cadet]

I just like to get under Cadet's skin a little.

I've been frustrating him since his first thread here.

TRUE - and Mach has definitely been here longer than me - although I am older.

Cadet.....sigh....

You are correct that I have experience in that area. And just like all of the years proceeding the latest, I certainly didn't want to be an "expert" in DBing OR being a Widower.

Truth is, out of all of the long term married couples out there, 50% of them will experience this.

Unfortunately that is true for both of the things that you are now an expert on.
Since we are on DB - we will stick to that topic.
Also I have no expertise on the latter.


Now cleaning garages I do know something about that and having older kids and ex-spouses leaving stuff in your house.
At some point you have a boundary that it has to go (or you just need the space) and then the decision is easy.