Valseka

I did have a short convo about boundaries with H

1. Stop telling /texting me everywhere you are and checking in ( been having an uptick of this for months , it’s annoying )
2. I do not wish to talk about our R for quite awhile if I’m outside you can always come play with kids but leave me be
3. I need time and space allow me this

H responded ok you deserve that and I will do that for you . H arrived home from work earlier than he has in few years . Not for me but to take the kids out for a few hours . Which was much appreciated. Kids enjoyed this very much . H has always been very active with kids , never been a huge issue to begin with .