RegretfulLA - hope you enjoyed the weekend without snoring nor H's antics.
I'm sorry to hear about the charges you came across. I can't imagine the emotions that ran through you. DnJ explained heavy lifting well in my thread. Give it another read.
We know that replay behaviors include activities MLCer wouldn't typically partake in pre-MLC. Being unfaithful is a way many seek 'happy'. Believe me, I don't condone it nor imply it's an easy finding. Still, we know it's common.
Only you know what you can overcome and forgive. Give your decision some time and thought. You don't need to decide whether to file or not today.
