That would be quite a shock on the credit card bill. And yes, H was so oblivious to how such would make you feel. His empathy chip is broken. He can’t even handle his own emotions, never mind anyone else’s.
Some financial suggestions to perhaps take another look at:
Is the credit card your’s? Or joint? Even if it is joint, pay it off and cancel it. Then get a new one. A new card, only in your name, a new number that H doesn’t have in his phone or access to. Let H figure out his own credit card arrangements.
Originally Posted by RegretfulLA
My biggest fear - honestly - is losing my house. It's not being alone, it's not seeing him with some other person, it's losing my house. Whatever happens, I cannot lose this house!
Did you speak with a L yet?
Business/financial path. H’s removal of $100,000 to fund his moving out should reciprocate on your side of the ledger. Goes a long ways to owning the house, methinks.
Remember, you are on two paths. You need to look after your financial protection and security.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
