Good Morning Rock

I’m glad to hear from you.

How is the mountain biking going? Putting on lots of miles? Do you ride mostly roads or trails?

Son’s health needs are burdensome. Man to man, well done! Keep showing up. Keep embracing. Doing what is right.

Originally Posted by Rockon
W left the country to be with OM again and didn’t tell me she was going.

Focus on you. Don’t give two figs about what she’s doing. Or where she’s going. Or what she tells or doesn’t tell you. Focus on you.

Originally Posted by Rockon
Felt the sting of abandonment all over again. I had really been detached but this shows me I’m not altogether indifferent.

Follow the sting. These are your emotions. Your feelings. Find why. Find and make peace with them/yourself.

Originally Posted by Rockon
I am ignoring her except matters about S.

Good. Let’s take it up a notch.

“I’m focusing upon myself, living and loving my life. W and I do interact in matters regarding S.”

Ignoring her, then becomes a byproduct not the purposeful activity.

Originally Posted by Rockon
Hoping to settle division of assets and buy her out of the house soon.

Likewise, I hope things proceed smoothly and timely for you.

Take care of yourself my friend.

D

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.