I am bumping this up so that you can provide an update here.
As I stated on my thread, you are over analyzing things. There is no rhyme or reason for what they do or don't do. The more you try to figure out what is going on the more you are going to drive yourself nuts. Sit quietly and the answers will come.
Keep the focus on you and what you need to do to live your life to the fullest.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.