1-2 things I have implemented are taking care of my overall appearance. Even at my age I am still quite attractive but tend to fall into mom gear for clothes . Feels nice to wear better clothing and not leggings . 180s I have learned to be quiet . Real quiet . I’m a chatty person still balancing the deer in headlights vs quiet when approached but getting there .
On the H front . Still being a hawk on me and trying every opportunity to attempt to talk . R talk but mainly about him and what he needs to do . He asked me what he needs to do to fix this . Didn’t really say much besides that’s for you to figure out not me . He started with the I need help with learning how to deal with things not the way I have been for years . Actions speak louder than words . Time will tell with a follow through .