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Thanks for the feedback in counseling. I suspected that it was futile. But grasping at this point.

Completely understand why you’d be grasping. We all did it, so no judgement from me.

However, it leads to the following question:

Do you think a “grasping” man would be considered attractive to a woman?

Trying to beg her along to counselling when she’s already told you she wants out comes across as needy and pathetic.

“I’m going to see a counsellor by myself to discuss how I want to move forward positively with my life” comes across as decisive and strong.

Loss of attraction is a slow, burning death for a marriage.

How about “I cancelled the counselling. I’ve taken a week off and hired a Harley motorbike so I can’t go.”

DO NOT ask when she’s moving out. It makes you sound desperate.