Rumspringa

[DnJ]

Good Morning R

H’s springing his move upon you is par for the course. Very teenager-like.

I said "I'm sorry you're so miserable" and rolled over and went back to sleep.

Perfect!

I'm doing ok. I feel like I need a break too, to tell you the truth. No tears. Maybe I'm just a little numb. But the marriage was at its breaking point, and now it's snapped. Time will tell if we can put it back together. Or not. I'm working on accepting the possibility of "not". "Not" may be the right choice.

(((Hug)))

You’ve got time. No need to make any major decisions right now.

However... H was here this afternoon and left the house with the front door unlocked and back door wide open (behind a locked gate, but still.) This is the kind of behavior that would drive anyone crazy. He's so checked out he can't remember to lock the door. Not the first time either. I've come home to the door actually wide open. Things have been stolen from our car because H forgets to lock it.

With H moved out, change the locks.

Speak with your L prior to ensure the legality of such action. Coming home to my house that may or may not be as secure as I left it, would be unacceptable to me. I’d also get H’s set of car keys back. He has his own car, doesn’t need access to your’s.

he's "miserable living here."

Oh yes, irksome for sure.

H is a troubled and lost soul. He has lots of growing up to do. Being on his own; his miserable-ness is now on him. Give him to God.

Have an awesome Friday.

D