Thank you for the reply. Been here before . He is in complete flight mode but has done the usual flip the script . Yesterday I’m sorry it’s all my fault trying to come in the bed for comfort to today the long text of everything I’ve done wrong over the last 10 years and he ll never recover . His family now knows . They are involved . I swear I think mom must have been on this site . Said let him go and see how much he really likes being alone . He’s got to do this on his own . I’m still confused by this entire thing . To one day go from a peaceful marriage that really began to have open communication to him getting caught and flying off the deep end . Goodness I forgot how crazy all this stuff was and how to not pay attention to most of it . Forgot how hard it is . Just to clarify when I said I told him I knew that he has been cheating on me for years that was not after he got caught . I said that during one of our very good and open talks we had months ago . Had he admitted it then we would not be here. Apparently only one of us was being honest .I did say after bomb drop u manipulated me for the last two years and made me feel crazy . Obviously I was not crazy . This evening he’s doing his random check in . He left to go to the park up the street and sent me a big long slew of how he can’t sit there and glare at me and he’s really hurt me and stay out of my way while I pack to go away alone with the kids that he is now to attending because he will be moving . Bunch of spew . I’m not making any decisions on anything but the rope is dropping . I have to go back a read the threads again . Because how do you react to him coming bed not for sex but just to hold you or vice versa ????
