Originally Posted by regretfulLA
it seems to me that most LBS end up doing BETTER.

Absolutely!

Most LBS put in the effort, do the inner work, and end up better. So much better, they’d not go back to the way things were, even if they could.

Forward and better. And just maybe their spouse decides to work and catch up.

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.