Grief and Gratitude, Grok - Shifting

[grok]

A few days ago from STBXW I received a lengthy text message with a screenshot of a medical bill text for D17. Summarized -

- image is supposed to be for D17
- I click and follow but it shows no account for D17
- I haven't gotten reminders for supposed bill for two months
- I'm sure it was paid by you or me or reimbursed
- I got this today
- I don't know if it is legitimate because
- THEY have been perpetrating money fraud to punish me for 16 months
- I tried D17's birth date and it said no account
- I tried S12's birth date and it said no account
- I refuse to call because people will say anything
- If you want, I can go in person
- I don't mind doing that in case it is real

Yes, she has always had a LOT of words. I had always found it endearing.

On the people "THEY" she thinks are persecuting her for the EA+? I don't know. I do know she spent $7,000 extra in the month before I took joint credit cards back. She spent ~$7,000+ on her own credit card before claiming fraud charges. She moved to a debit card and then claimed fraud/hacking a couple months later. The woman I knew before is very smart but inexperienced in finance/money.

I just replied, after 24 hours, "That sounds frustrating. I will take care of **medical company**"

I attempted to validate the feelings expressed between the lines and take on what is my responsibility. I STFU about anything else.

The medical insurance and payments for the kids are my responsibility. I paid the bill when I knew there was one. She took them in for some visits this year but I don't think she tracked anything.

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