Sorry abt posting the link job, thanks for fixing it.
I guess with his family, I don't want to talk abt the sitch, I would just like a thank you or thumbs up when I tell someone HBD, heck they could even give me the middle finger, IDC, just respond. I guess it hurts my feelings that SIL isn't blood and hasnt been in the family as long as me, yet is being treated that way. She is everything they want to be. She comes from money, and knows how to manage it, has a good education and a great job. I feel like I have never measured up to their expectations, which is crazy. I guess it's that way because they've always wanted what they don't have and they are all abt status, or at least the sister is. Always wanted to have the very best of everything even though she can't afford it. Idk why I'm on this soap box, let me get off.
My BFF she does mean well and doesn't like it that I have been treated this way. She tries to give advice but does it in a negative way and has always been this way. I just have to pick and choose what I listen to and what I dont I sometimes think she is more upset with him then I. I really have to be careful what I share with what people, which is hard cause I'm an open book, I just don't always want your opinion. So, I guess it's just best if I keep my mouth shut....LOL
As far as standing, when i say that i am referring to standing and beliving with me in prayer, I'm standing in general, not for the marriage we had but the marriage we will have.
