So today was a struggle day for me, I sent the email to my atty stating my request. It all started last night with my BFF, she is on FB, I am not. I have made it known I don't want to know what he is doing, so therefore FB is not safe for me, considering his sister loves to take pics. Anyway my BFF very sneakily sent me screenshot of a post she saw from yesterday after church, she cropped H out of it to ask me who the guy in the pic was. I answered the question and I guess that opened Pandora box for her to say, "oh yeah H is going to church every Sunday, then they all go out to eat." My response was good that means he heard the sermon from today on relationships. To which she came back with, "oh they're not going to that church." I said, " oh ok, just glad he's going." I was hurt, I was hurt that she stuck the knife in and then twisted it. I was hurt that when my sitch started and still today, everybody in his family couldn't/wouldn't talk to me, not even when he had quadruple by-pass. Yet the SIL is going through the same thing with BIL and they've all surrounded her with support, which I'm glad , I just wish I had been given the same treatment instead of feeling like yesterday's garbage. That's where the struggle day began and continued until tonight. Our church is having revival, and I'm glad I needed my faith tank filled. One of the ladies that I am friends with and is standing, believing with me, she and I were having a long conversation and she told me abt a video I needed to watch and sent me the link(by the way the girl in the video is the daughter of a gospel singer). I just got through watching it and boy oh boy did I see every one of our situations in this video, not only did I see our situations, I also saw hope through prayer. Her mom and husband never stopped praying and standing on the promises of God's word. So when u think your prayers aren't being heard, don't lose faith because he hears them, he sees u, he sees our spouses, he knows where they are and what they're doing, so don't give up, don't stop praying.
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