I want to second what Kind says above. You've got to become so good that others (including W) can ignore it. And, nor for them or her - but for yourself. To practice solid self-care. Improve your own well-being. As Kind suggests, R2C reminds us often about what it takes to be an attractive person to others. It doesn't involve being cold, critical, or mean. It does involve a realization that you have faults to address (for your own well-being), strengths to build upon (for your own well-being), friends and family who likely enjoy time with you, a job or trade that hopefully fuels your sense of purpose and/or meaning. Use the gift of time you're being given in "limbo" to apply the guidance you read out here. Prioritize 2-3 things that resonate with you...things you know in the back of your mind you should be working on and let that replace some focus on your W and D. I can tell it is creating anxiety for you and from experience encourage you to put that energy to positive use for yourself. Please trust me and others in suggesting it is better than engaging your W in the ways she's trying to engage you.
