The delay in settling finances must be very annoying. But you will rise above it!
Mine agreed to everything in mediation, and then her and her lawyer spent four weeks between then and orders becoming final attempting to gold dig for more possessions. Stuff like “If you don’t agree to add in the clothes drier to the mediated agreement, we are going to refuse to sign the orders”.
Was it about the clothes drier? Of course not. It was about control! Because it was all mediated and agreed, she had lost her control over me and the situation and it was eating her alive. I think she figured if I’d agreed at mediation then I must have been happy with the deal. And the thought of me being happy and her not being able to manipulate me drove her bananas.
It will get sorted in time. Very frustrating, but in five years probably you’ll have completely forgotten about it.
Glad you’re taking the time to smell the roses and enjoy life. You only get one chance at life, and it’s pretty short - best to be making the most of it.
Are you staying fit? Have you joined a club? Do you have hobbies you can restart? What about getting a motorbike? A mountain bike? Joining a gym.
