im done with dating until I finish my courses online and start my new job which should be the begining of next year. this girl may have been another bullet dodged and only 2 months wasted.
I think it is wise to utilize such a time frame. I do think you dodged a bullet. Also, it’s two months invested, not wasted, if you grow and evolve from this experience.
For what it’s worth, two months is still infatuation. Her behaviour, it’s love bombing. It’s immature, manipulating, and a red flag. A few months, feelings wane a bit, then overnight it’s devaluation of you, and over. A slower progress would make and be good indications for a potential solid relationship, IMHO.
Originally Posted by aphexx13
one thing that is confusing is that we are still friends on facebook and tik tok and im getting notifications from her page. she told me that she doesnt remain friends on facebook with her exs. if shes done with me why hasnt she unfriended me?
A better question is why haven’t you unfriended her? Why are you waiting? What are you waiting for? Be strong, confident, secure. You don’t need that drama in your life.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
