Start a new thread just as you did this one. When you create a new thread, create a new title. I will come back around and link this thread to the new one. I am locking this thread after I respond to you since we are now over the 100 posting mark.
I would sit on that text for a while. Don't be in a hurry to respond. In fact, if he doesn't broach the subject with you, then don't respond. If he insists on talking about it, tell him you need to have some time to digest this latest news. Don't go into specifics and/or have deep discussions. I would advise you to get your ducks in a row and be prepared for anything that he will toss at you now. Evidently, the man has forgotten that he filed a year ago. Again, the ball is in his court...do not help him out of the marriage...he needs to do this all on his own.
Here is the link on how to link threads...but I will be happy to do this one for you.
Last edited by DnJ; 07/27/2405:04 PM. Reason: Added link.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.