Wife in crisis

[Ready2Change]

I am sitting here this evening listening to my kids playing in their bedroom instead of sleeping.

Best sounds ever....take time enjoy and put into your memory. All my kids are out of house...time flys by.

I would be grateful for a reflection from the board:I am thinking as a first step asking her to get a job and contribute to the household income.

My 2 cents,draft up a boundary on this and run it past the board.


PS:

yet gotten drawn into two arguments

Keep working on self control and commit to never argue. STFU and listen, or better yet, be busy doing.

If you must speak:
"I understand you feel that way"
"you look frustrated"
"You sound annoyed"