This generational curse has got to stop, it's a disease and it's running through our family. I spoke to my SIL last night and it appears that her H my H's brother has lost his ever loving mind. He had shown signs of this happening around the same time my sitch started, he tried to suppress it, now its boiling over. All of this is a result of the trauma they experienced during their childhood. We have to pay for the failures of their parents. It's so funny to me the people they dislike the most is who they are acting like.
My heart hurts for her and their 2 young kids. She is fortunate, she has a great family, a good job and a beautiful house, in times like this those things all seems unimportant. Your heart hurts so bad u just want it to stop. I just want to b there for her, somebody to listen when she needs to vent, I feel it's important to have people that understand what you're going through instead of the eye rollers. I'm gonna tell her abt the this forum hopefully she will check it out and it will help her as much as it's helped me.