This morning I received a text from W: ”It is past the 30 days and I did not receive a notification of a court date. Could you let me know if there are any Mondays or Fridays you’ll be unavailable over the next month, and when I call to talk to the clerk, we will choose the best date and time possible for less impact on your work.”
Wait 24/48.
Email "My understanding: September 11 at 9am room 13, regards Grok" (or whatever time and place)
then text: "Sent you an email"
This is a business transaction. Treat her respectfully like someone you don't know. (for example:a hostess at a restaurant) No emotions.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712